Me Me Me

Is it OK to focus on me once in a while? Is it OK to worry about me and do things for me, not for someone else. 

When you get ready in the morning, who do you get ready for? Who do you dress cute for and put your make-up on for? Do you do it for yourself, so that you can feel good about yourself? Or do you do it for someone else? It is OK to want to look good for someone or to want to be noticed by someone because of how you look but if you only do everything for someone else, then you will never be happy. 

If you are constantly focused on someone else then you will never focus on you and worry about what you need. 

I have been neglecting me. Everything I do is for someone else. I never think about me anymore. When I get up, that is the first thought that runs through my head. When I get dressed, I think about what someone else will think of it, not about how I feel in it. 

I am sick of never thinking about me anymore. True, some people do take it to the extreme and focus on them and think that the world revolves around them, but there does need to be some self concern in life. 

If I never think about myself and how I feel, I will wake up one day and completely have lost my personality and who I am. I won't have a life of my own and I won't have any ambition in life. And to be honest, who wants someone that has no life or personality and has nothing to talk about? I don't, so I refuse to be the lifeless person that I have been. I will stop obsessing over something else and start focusing on me.